Talking about farewell and legacy is a challenge for many people. Yet it is valuable to discuss your parents' wishes with them. It offers them calm and gives you clarity. The myGoodbye app makes recording these wishes more manageable. Below, we discuss five questions that can help you have this conversation in a calm and open way.
How do you want to be remembered?
This question opens the conversation in a personal and positive way. It is not just about the funeral, but also about which memories your parents want to leave behind. Think of photos, stories or places that are important to them. With the bucket list feature in myGoodbye, they can record and share special life moments.
What are your specific wishes for your farewell?
Many people have specific ideas about their funeral, such as music, flowers or the location. Ask your parents what matters to them and whether there are traditions they want to preserve. With the myGoodbye app, they can record all their wishes in a clear overview, so you know how to shape their farewell in a personal way.
What should happen with your digital legacy?
In a world where you live increasingly online, the question of what should happen with social media accounts, online subscriptions and digital photos becomes more relevant. Do your parents know, for example, whether their Facebook account should receive a memorial status? Through myGoodbye, you can arrange these matters.
Are there important documents or information I should know about?
From a will and insurance papers to bank details and passwords: it is important to know where this information can be found. myGoodbye offers a safe place to record where important documents are located, so you do not have to search for them during a difficult period.
Who do you want me to involve in your farewell?
It is good to know who plays an important role in your parents' lives. Think of close friends, family members or colleagues. You can add these people to the guest list in myGoodbye. That way, you can be sure the right people are informed in time.
It is also important to assign trusted contacts to your myGoodbye account. Only these people gain access to all the information in the app. You can find more details here: https://www.mygoodbye.com/wist-je-dat/wist-je-dat-jouw-gegevens-alleen-naar-gekoppelde-vertrouwenspersonen-gestuurd-kan-worden
How myGoodbye helps you with this
The myGoodbye app is designed to record wishes regarding farewell and legacy. The app helps you with:
- Starting the conversation about how you leave things for your loved ones
- Recording all your wishes in a clear overview
- Going through all possible topics, so you do not forget anything
- Managing your digital legacy
- Recording who should be informed
- Assigning trusted contacts
- Indicating where important documents are located
- Indicating how to access important online accounts
- Preserving important memories
By using the app together with your parents, the conversation becomes a valuable moment to better understand each other. It is and remains a personal process. You decide how much you record and at what pace. The myGoodbye app moves along with you.
Why start now
The conversation about farewell and legacy can feel uncomfortable, but it offers calm and prevents uncertainty. A tool like myGoodbye makes this process more manageable.
Download the myGoodbye app and get started together with your parents.
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