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Checklist for loved ones after a passing

1 min. reading time 5 October 2024

Losing a loved one brings many emotions and questions. Besides the grief, there are also practical matters to arrange, and that can sometimes feel overwhelming. This checklist helps you keep an overview.

1. Report the passing to a doctor. The doctor draws up a death certificate. You need this document for the next steps, such as arranging the funeral and handling official documents.

2. Inform family and friends. Let close family and friends know as soon as possible. They can offer support and help with the first practical steps.

3. Choose a funeral director. A funeral director helps you plan the burial or cremation. Choose a director who respects the wishes of the person who passed and the family.

4. Check the wishes of the person who passed. Some people document their wishes in a document or an app, such as myGoodbye. In the myGoodbye app, you can easily view preferences as a trusted contact, such as the location of the funeral, music choices, or special requests.

5. Handle the administrative matters. Various organizations need to be informed of the passing. Think of the municipality, insurance companies, and the bank. Make sure all important documents, such as wills and insurance policies, are easily accessible.

6. Organize the funeral. A funeral can take different forms, depending on the wishes. Think of a burial, cremation, or a ceremony at a different location. Key things to arrange are the venue, speakers, music, and flowers.

7. Take care of yourself. Arranging everything around a farewell can be emotionally heavy. Take time to grieve and ask for help when you need it. Family, friends, and professionals can support you.

How myGoodbye helps with this

myGoodbye simplifies the process for your loved ones. By documenting your wishes in advance in the app, you give your loved ones clarity and calm. You can record personal preferences, from the funeral location to specific music or rituals. This way, everyone can say goodbye in a dignified way, exactly as you intended.

Would you like to know more about documenting your wishes? Visit the website or download the myGoodbye app. That way, your loved ones know exactly what to do and can focus on what truly matters: the farewell and the memory of you.